I think that what the majority of the people within the industry want to do (microservices and distributed systems, much like FAANG) far exceeds their capability to deal with the complexities (such as testing distributed systems) and doesn't always even fit their needs.
I get the feeling that if more people were okay with developing monoliths (albeit modular ones), then a lot of things could be easier to do, such as doing TDD properly and being able to refactor without fearing the unforseen consequences.
Heck, maybe the projects that i work on in my $dayjob would even have proper documentation, decent test coverage, as well as a set of tools to support the development processes, instead of having to waste time managing the configuration, deployments, as well as system integrations. Maybe it's a matter of there not being enough workforce (or the managerial folk not seeing much point in investing resources into testing and other ops related activities that don't generate business value directly, a worrying trend i've noticed), but right now i'm implementing Ansible and containerization to at least simplify some of this stuff, but it feels like an uphill battle, as i'm also supposed to ship new features.
Surely i'm not the only one that kind of sees why the person that you're replying to would express the viewpoints that they did? It's hard to do elaborate E2E tests when everything is figuratively on fire constantly and you're struggling with a complicated architecture which may or may not be necessary. I'm probably projecting here, though, but every single enterprise project that i've worked on has been like that.