You know what else is bad form? Making such big assumptions about Facebook's intentions.
"They could also use this information to see whether I’m using Google Video Chat. Whether this is the purpose or not I don’t know. Regardless, they’re collecting this information from millions of unknowing users. Bad form Facebook. Bad form."
I don't think that's making big assumptions. That's just stating a fact: you don't do something invasive when it's not required or expected by the people trusting you to run software on their computer. End of story.