I've heard quite a few stories like this, and anecdata though it may be, I find it very intriguing. How WOULD we know? There seems to me to be a pretty consistent timeline: confirmed cases and rampant spread in other countries, the first confirmed cases in the US and rampant spread among vulnerable populations (nursing homes, etc.), and subsequently the overwhelming of ICUs. Each step seemed to take a few weeks, and progress consistently. There's a lot of suspicion from some that things were misreported, and some of that is the typical lies-with-statistics, etc. but I know enough people who were working in nursing homes and in ICUs that I personally trust the general timeline to be reality.
So what's up with these early possible cases? I wonder how plausible it is that it there was some early spread of the same disease, but vulnerable populations were just luckily avoiding exposure. It really seemed to take off in the US in those nursing homes. IIRC that's what happened in Seattle, and that's what happened in my county. THAT'S what wiped out most of our body count, and that's what initially overwhelmed ICUs. And that's what raised a lot of awareness, and probably a few self-diagnosed false positives too. Could genuine COVID cases have been going around before then and just not getting the attention, or causing as much damage until that point?