> Steve Jobs, he himself up on stage said it would be open source
This seems to be the quote you are referring to:
“FaceTime video calling. Now, FaceTime is based on a lot of open standards — H.264 video, AAC audio, and a bunch of alphabet soup acronyms — and, we’re gonna take it all the way. We’re going to the standards bodies, starting tomorrow, and we’re gonna make FaceTime an open industry standard.”
Note Jobs promised open industry standard and not open source. They are not the same thing. But you are correct that we are still waiting for Jobs' promised open standard!
This CNET article also misconstrues "open industry standard" as "open source" and also blames VirnetX:
https://www.cnet.com/news/steve-jobs-promised-to-make-faceti...