The presence of garbage collection in julia is not a problem at all for hot, high performance code. There's nothing stopping you from manually managing your memory in julia.
The easiest way would be to just preallocate your buffers and hold onto them so they don't get collected. Octavian.jl is a BLAS library written in julia that's faster than OpenBLAS and MKL for small matrices and saturates to the same speed for very large matrices [1]. These are some of the hottest loops possible!
For true, hard-real time, yes julia is not a good choice but it's perfectly fine for soft realtime.
[1] https://github.com/JuliaLinearAlgebra/Octavian.jl/issues/24#...