I think that is the distinction that parent is making.
In a TUI environment (ignoring mouse support) traditional GUI elements and layouts often don’t make sense. Like one of the examples with all the radio buttons in small boxes.
The good TUI apps like htop, newsboat, mutt, vim/emacs, tmux all have mostly line-and-column oriented simple layout primitives.
Notcurses' principal author aspires for it to provide a widget toolkit for TUIs[1], but much of the demo and much of the commit log to date is heavily focused on graphical capabilities and lower-level details.
It may be that one day it ships with a robust widget toolkit; or perhaps someone else will build another library on top of notcurses with that as the principal focus.
I'm also impressed with the effort put into FinalCut[2], but notcurses seems to me to be paving a more interesting path forward for TUI development.
[1] https://nick-black.com/htp-notcurses.pdf, see e.g. page 3
VS Code shows how utterly difficult it is to get a GUI working well in that scenario.
Did you mean running VS Code on a remote server and forwarding it to the local machine? X11 based forwarding?
My first experience with remote XWindows was using IBM X Windows terminals in 1994.