While money is fungible, time is not. You can't buy more time with your kids while they're young if they're already grown. You can't buy more time with someone who has passed away. And you can't buy your way out of missed opportunities in your personal life, once they've gone they're gone.
Same thing applies to cooking, groceries, errands, etc.
He's not coming back to the office. No way, no how. He's seen a better life.
Driving a car yep you're absolutely right, but if you commute via car a long distance for a considerable amount of time I think you're crazy.
For the record, I’ve commuted via public transit (both bus and train), bike, and foot for long stretches of time. All beat driving, all are much worse than just not commuting at all.
I don't what commuter line you're coming in on but it must be one with seats on the roof.