I have no idea about your walk of life, but people leaving low paying jobs doesn’t feel irrational or lazy, or bullshitty in general. Why shouldn’t they ?
It's related to strong senses of personal responsibility and pride in reliability and dependability, in my experience.
The underlying problem is that wages are so low in some places that it’s not possible to survive without:
- multiple incomes in the household
- multiple jobs
- going into debt
- living in a dangerous place
Etc.
These conditions leave the person without much choice but to leave.
I was trying to explain some of the common attitudes that might be related to the OP's response.