I wouldn't call it "gaslighting". People need to eat, wear clothes, have a place to stay, etc., which is the kind of thing measured by price inflation. If that stuff is relatively stable then it doesn't matter nearly as much if stocks and bonds go up.
That's a concern primarily to wealthier people who already have assets, and for them, the increases are double-edged swords. Them that has, gets. Them that doesn't -- i.e. young but upwardly mobile people -- are forced to play that high-risk game.
The genuinely poor weren't playing that game to begin with, and could never retire, so they were always out of luck. The only thing they have going for them is social security, i.e. wealth transfer. It's not much, but the alternative would be absolute poverty, which is what it looked like in the early 20th century.
I'm more concerned about them then about whether the wealthy stay wealthy, or even whether the young and upwardly-mobile can get assets.