ARMv9 tries to unify that a bit [1]. They add a new security model and SVE moves from a side option to a requirement. A bunch of the various v8 instructions also get bundled into the core requirements.
A14 vs X2 is a different question. A14/M1 really dropped the ball by not supporting SVE. I suspect they will support it in their next generation of processors, but the problem is adoption. Everyone is jumping on the M1 units and won't be upgrading their laptops for another few years. As such, they'll be held back for the foreseeable future.
Performance is no question and A14 will be retaining its lead for the next 2-3 years at least. X1 chips are already significantly slower than A14 chips. X2 only increases performance by 10-16% (as pointed out in the article, the 16% is a bit disingenuous as it compares X1 with 4mb cache to the x2 with 8mb of cache while X1 gets a decent speedup with the 8mb version). Furthermore, by the time X2 is actually in devices, Apple will already be launching their own next generation of processors (though I suspect we're about to see them move to small performance increases due to diminishing returns).
[0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/AArch64
[1] https://www.anandtech.com/show/16584/arm-announces-armv9-arc...