“Put that in your pipe and smoke it”
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Interesting. I always gave it a more sinister meaning along the lines of “eat that”. This is definitely more neutral.
When I was a teenager my cousin hit me with a new one that I kind of like: “put that in your juice box and suck on it”
I'm not sure why this caught HN's interest to be honest, but it's no harm. If you want more, you can read P.W. Joyce: https://archive.org/details/englishaswespeak00joycuoft/
The boss cut our hours and gave them to his cousin! (Now put that in your pipe and smoke it)
Just checked with my partner, they're from half the country away from where I'm from and they agree.
The only local color I have to add is that it was also somewhat normal to hear “put that in your peace pipe and smoke it” and also “so you can shove that in your peace pipe, and smoke it,” both being references to the custom among some Native North American nations to share a “peace pipe” as a kind of diplomatic gesture, but turned on its head.
This had the effect of me always believing and perceiving it as (usually) especially sarcastic, but largely deriving from the exact meaning that it originates from, even if the cultural reasons were obfuscated.
In the USA it seems to mean 'cope' or put up with.
In Australia / UK it means do something about it.
With an unspecified subject "deal with it", it does mean "put up with" or abide. However, if your boss told you that "We haven't been paid yet; deal with it!", odds are good that you're expected to be on the phone or otherwise chasing down the tardy clients.
The only thing that came to mind is "bite/eat it" (i.e., fall), and there "it" is presumably the dirt/snow/pavement/etc that the person fell onto. The "it" in "hit it" and "cool it" seems to refer to the on-going action/attitude too, even if it's not precisely specified.
If you're curious about dummy objects, there is a short list of examples on wikipedia ( https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dummy_pronoun#Dummy_objects ), such as make it [achieve success].
Taking more examples from your link:
- "I don't get it" == "I don't understand [something]", in the same way that "I don't get math" == "I don't understand math."
- "He made it" == "He succeeded [generally]", but you can drop in several concrete goals: "He made the team/grade/partner" == "He was successful at ..."
- "Deal with the problem" == "Take some action to solve the problem", but "Deal with it" == "Abide the current situation because it will not change".
"You should deal with it / I'll deal with it" - do something to solve the problem
"Yeah, deal with it!" - dismissively, put up with it
I don't know if the latter came from the American usage, but I certainly hear it used.
As other comments have pointed out, there is no difference in meaning by country. Both meanings exist, and which one is being used is determined by context.
That's the meaning I'm familiar with in the US. Jonathan Coulton's song Not About You [also American] makes it quite explicit that those two phrases in particular are synonymous.
I've always understood it the same way. Checked with my partner from half this country away, and she agrees too.
She also said:
"go sew buttons on your underwear" - what your doing is just about as useless
"and, if horses were wishes, beggars would ride" - stop wishing and just do it
She also referred to improper fractions as “big top” or Dolly Parton “because she’s big up top, you know what I mean?”
Yes Mrs. Covington, we did :-)
I know the saying, but I just see it as expressing "wishing won't make something happen". No implication that you should, or even could, actually do anything to realize your wish.
From my experience "based" represents a level-headed, wise individual who can think outside the box.
"I like the island Manhattan.
Smoke on your pipe and put that in!"