Unfortunately, we got stuck on the "wear masks to protect others" narrative, and people who actually were at risk were prevented from wearing much more effective, much more comfortable, masks that would actually work well at protecting them. Eg here in Canada, it's illegal to wear a mask/respirator with a valve on a plane.
If you and I both have 50% filtration, that's the equivalent of 75% filtration. For the person who is vulnerable, that is much less effective than just wearing a 95% minimum filtration valved N95 mask/respirator properly.
It's just ridiculous that an elderly man on a flight, sitting next to a healthy 15 year old more likely to be killed by a flu infection(1), will be told to take off his valved N95 respirator here in Canada, to protect that 15 year old. I have friends who have seen this happen first hand.
Why is that "unfortunate"? Surely discomfort is less important than actually protecting life?