Point to where I wrote they had to live with the family?
But since you mention it, I DO have a “random old person” watching my kids right now as I live thousands of miles away from my biological parents for now.
There are daycares being busted for neglect and abuse so industrialization is hardly a solution to the problem of finding the right person.
I’m done with the patronizing attitude. Have a good day.
Edit: yes down vote me for not agreeing with you, and having a reasonable rebuttal. Weird flex, but ydy.