Before you laugh or be prude, porn content was what made VHS and BluRay succeed (or are these urban legends?) and they were pioneers in stuff like online video streaming.
The fact that you instantly associate what OP mentioned to women specifically is quite disgusting, not going to lie
FYI More people than just women suffer through that and taking the oxygen of such a discussion via weaponizing linguistics is just nasty and a horrible way to spend the opportunity cost of it
I know some girls who are prostitutes. They seem normal enough. Maybe they're wearing a facade and have hidden PTSDs, I don't know, but if that's the case, I think you might want to extend your crusade against the military.