As a founder, if your business doesn't fit that mold you probably shouldn't raise from VCs. There are angels out there with a higher risk tolerance who write fewer checks and are more interested in contributing directly to a company's success outside of capital.
The idea that workers are diluted by the VCs is usually bogus. In an upside scenario, everyone wins. In a neutral exit scenario, the employees get to keep their wages, the investors get their money paid out first (if there's any left) and the founders/employees get hosed. In a downside scenario, everyone loses, except employees still get to keep their wages earned.
It seems like you're conflating wage workers vs VC vs founder. Each of these roles has a wildly different risk profile when it comes to a startup.
if what I just wrote is true, then I can see how others might use vc-backed companies as a proxy for broad economic gains
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