I have dinner plates that are larger than the phased array under the nose cone/radome of the C-130 Hercules or the 737.
Phased arrays can be very small.
Phased arrays can be very small.
Note that just putting a couple of antennas close to each other to improve angular resolution on the radar isn't really a phased array in the sense that we're talking about.
Specifically, I believe the one on the 737 is the Rockwell Collins WXR-2100.