While I understand where you're coming from, this is the kind of conversation that has turned me off from most of the internet.
On the months I've been on ClubHouse, I've never had an exchange like this. But elsewhere on the web? It's fairly common.
Text is a hard medium to discuss complicated ideas in. It's too easy to be snarky. You get kudos for it. But that's harder to do in voice. Because you'd have to hear my reaction, and the reactions of others. You'd have to hear how off-putting it is.
I prefer ClubHouse now, because the rest of the web is so snarky. And do you blame me? Given how you've reacted to me?