Honestly, I remember getting into computers because everything was getting better. New capabilities made things faster, easier and smarter.
But sometime around the early 2000's businesses started exercising more control over the users.
I think it was basically the iphone that started a lot of bad precedents by removing the ability for the user to run his own software - both through he app store, and strict control by apple of what software could run on the phone.
I think this was initially done for security/piracy/etc, but the power grab self-propagated.
Apple thinks they are responsible for your iphone, but now they think they own it.
And when control was reverted to apple, they decided it was not important for people to see what was running on their phone, what it was doing, and who it was talking to.
At that point, software companies had more control over your phone than the users.
To me, the promise of computers got sort of tarnished - it's a little bit of a dark age.
When I hear of a new convenient feature, or smart-iot thing, I think that it will benefit the business and compromise the user.
But I still believe -- I think linux phones and tablets will be important checks and balances that can return control to the user and return to a more positive future.