I'm assuming you have significant peer-reviewed documentation of this? You are certainly very definite about it - can you point me at the research that supports your point of view?

Note, I'm not questioning it, and I'm not saying what my stance is, I'm just asking that you provide some evidence.

I know some people who were never physically chastised as children and who have been - in the opinion of multiple independent professionals - deeply screwed up by the psychological manipulation.

I also know people who as children were "chastised" to the point of requiring hospitalisation. The damage there was more obvious.