Women under 30 may have this slightly raised risk of death with the vaccine if you control the virus without vaccine which you can't actually do indefinitely. The relative mortality of Denmark being 4 times lower than the others shows that the 4.2k deaths, so that ~2k would repeat many times to get to herd immunity and in the meantime you would be willing 10 times that in the women under 64 with taking the first EU advice given too literally.
I don't agree with this idea that we have to find data to weigh ridiculously unlikely harms for the individual. That gets into freeloader math like not vaccinating your particular patient because the rest of their demographic is vaccinated enough.
Also when you add other outcomes for covid patients who go to hospital you will have much larger subsequent negative outcomes and some death rates from associated problems Like MRSA, error, c-dificile, subsequent antibiotics, etc..
> deaths among young women attributed to vaccinations would overtake deaths from the illness itself, which would completely destroy trust in ..
Clearly a magical vaccine that was available and injected immediately would have killed more people than the virus would have in that scenario, but patients who refuse the vaccine in that scenario don't get to live in that scenario because they create this scenario.