If she only made the 250k, she'd be spending like 12.5% of her yearly take home pay on a fridge. That seems like a little much.
($250k is like $160k take home with her home town taxes. 20/160 = 0.125)
($250k is like $160k take home with her home town taxes. 20/160 = 0.125)
I'm not saying buying something that is 12.5% of your take home income is unreasonable. After all, I own a car. I'm saying that buying a fridge at 12.5% of your take home income is unreasonable.
If you're going to expend effort judging someone, judge them by their deeds, not by the appliances they buy.