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I’ve lived 30 years in extremely well run and organized cities, with great public transport and used car only every few weeks for the longer trips.

I live now in a proper suburb and drive everywhere. And I enjoy it much more.

Not everyone values same things in their life the same. YMMV.

> Not everyone values same things in their life the same. YMMV.

Completely agree. And it's a public policy problem where one lifestyle is very nearly enforced. So people are pushing back against that.

It's like if the government was doing this thing you wanted them to do and a lot of other people didn't like it, but they did it anyway, you'd be like yea cool this works. Good job government.

In this case it's keep building roads, parking lots, and suburbs because I like driving and I'll use that to solve all my problems. But you're not realizing some of the costs of all of those things. Society certainly is. National debt, time spent sitting in a car commuting because there's no other option, teenagers dying in car crashes (I think it's still the number 1 killer of teens?), drunk driving (again no options here), amount of money spent on infrastructure, oil, wars, etc.

I don't disagree with you, people value different things. However most of the US is designed in this suburb style where it's just miles and miles of houses with grocery stores and food being at least 5-15 mins away via -car-. Chicago, NY, and Boston have decent metro lines but none of our public transit comes even close to e.g. Korea or Japan in terms of efficiency, comprehensiveness, and cleanliness.

The only option for the majority of the US is to have a car. And I hate that.

edit: also regarding cars: I can't relax fully because I'm operating a vehicle in a space shared by other people, who are potentially distracted, operating potentially deadly vehicles that kill or seriously injure many Americans each year, and I can't read a book, etc, because my hands are tied up. This would be fine if I had other choices, but I realistically don't.

My wife was born and grew up in Hong Kong, an urban dream city. Between MTR, light rail, and an incredible bus system, their transportation is some of the best in the world, and it serves some very high-density housing, so it's well-suited.

A few years ago she moved to the US and we now live in a suburb of Dallas, Texas, where she loves it. She prefers it over Hong Kong in nearly every way, loves driving, loves everything about it.

It's simple not true that US suburbs become unpalatable when compared to Seoul (or Hong Kong). That may be true for you, but it is not at all true for everyone. There are tradeoffs and compromises on both extremes.

People have such curious idea of what a suburb has to be like.

I live in a suburb in the UK. We have groceries in walking distance. I can get a train or a bus anywhere I want. This is all achievable without building a metropolis like Seoul.

I don't understand why people hear suburb and think unwalkable and no public transport. It's normal in other places.

I suppose I should clarify that I'm talking about suburbs in the US. They're not designed for humans, but for cars. And public transportation is largely a joke outside of a few cities.

Most often they're Americans where in the suburbs you can't walk to groceries even if they're in distance unless you want to walk on the highway. There's no public transport either. Like there's nothing at all. People drive a quarter mile because the environment is so hostile.

There's nothing curious about it. This article is about the United States and people are referring to suburbs in the U.S.

If you're not familiar with U.S. suburbs, their history, and how they were explicitly designed... that's fine, but it's kind of condescending to talk like those of us who are aware of U.S. suburbs have some "curious" and bizarre idea about them.

The bit they're missing is that it's not an inherent property of suburbs. The problem isn't suburbs, it's how some suburbs have been done.

It can be done in America. I've seen small, walkable towns there. In fact isn't America famous for its walkable small towns? Small-town America. You can even find them near where people think they're impossible - like the small coastal towns in the Bay Area such as Half Moon Bay. Completely walkable.

And to repeat the parent comment back to them:

> It makes me rather depressed knowing what people are missing out on, what life is capable of being like.

You can say the same about their own view of suburbs!

I think you're reading the term "suburb" too literally, as an outlying municipality of a major city. In fact, when Americans use the term "suburb", especially in this context, it means, by definition, developments with sprawling, car-centric design.