Never has that been so stark as with Node.js. So many mistakes, mistakes that have been made before. Such a mind boggling lack of purpose. There has never been a need for Node.js - except to play with the cool kids that programme Javascript on the client, server, on any &&^^*!! thing!
I still do not see the need for Javascript anywhere but in a browser, and with Webassembly, most of the impressive things done in the browser do not need Javascript any more.
So my preference is for Javascript to quietly die out in a dignified exit stage left. But I am not always completely correct. So if you must, then use Deno. Node.js is simply awful. Deno is only useless. A vast improvement.