Expect to continue being amazed in 2041 when they still work and in exactly the same way.
I don't know why or how it got fashionable to dismiss someone having something terrible done to them by saying "they should have known better" but every single time it's bullshit.
I have a feeling it's a thought terminating cliche to help out of the state where you know something terrible happened to this person, and there is nothing you can do about it.