C++ is considered the industry leading language in many fields. I'm not sure how many more you would want (given that those fields that don't use C++ ARE probably better served with some other language).
I agree the build is painfull, but large orgs have for this reason specifically implemented build systems using nugets, conan/cmake or whatnot.
In personal projects I just download the prebuilt binaries of component libraries and drag and drop them to visual studio, minimizing hassle.
If you discard finesse and scalability as requirements you can actually jury rig a C++ project in a jiffy. You just need to let go of the idea that it must be "industry standard setup".