> You don't know what scaling problems you're going to get until you've scaled.
This is the point I keep repeating.
If you find yourself needing to scale, the way you scale likely does not match what anyone else is doing. The way Netflix scaled does not look anything like the way WhatsApp scaled. The application dictates the architecture. Not the other way around. Netflix started as a DVD service. Their primary scaling concerns were probably keeping a LAMP stack running and how the hell to organize, ship, and receive thousands of DVDs a day. These scaling problems have little in common with their current, streaming, scaling problems.
It's a weird thing that developers love to discuss and hype up scale and scaling technology and then turn around and warn against the dangers of premature optimization in code. If you ask me, the mother of all premature optimization is scaling out your architecture to multiple servers, sharding when you don't need to, dealing with load balancing, multiple security layers, availability, redundancy, data consistency, containers, container orchestration, etc. All for a system that could, realistically, run quite adequately on an off-the-shelf Best Buy laptop. We have gigabit ethernet and USB 3 on a Raspberry Pi today and people are still shocked you could run a site like HN off a single server. We've all been lobotomized by the cloud hype of the 2010s that we can't even function without AWS holding our hand.