Is that still the case? I thought BeamVM recently added JIT? I don't expect it to be LuaJIT or JS V8, but Ruby and Python Single Thread performance should be reasonable expectation?
I also wish some of these experience has more context in terms of code base size and team size. A Production environment of a small project with a team of 2 is very different to production environment of a project that is large and team of dozens if not hundreds.