For GitLab if you don't have at least developer access to the repository (as in you are sending a MR from a fork) that will run in the context of your user, so you don't have access to any secrets configured upstream, etc.
If you have access to a repository you can customize the script to do whatever you want, but there will always be a trace tracking it back to you.
There is a discussion about ultimate security (access only when asked) Vs the convenience of self-service.
You can still avoid that by having people use a fork model, or triggering CD from an external project with tight access.
Putting a burocratic process between ICs will only limit their throughput as in Jenkins paradigm.
The better advice is don't hire people you can't trust