The Risk of Working Hard
ben.casnocha.com
ben.casnocha.com
This may be a common viewpoint, but it's unhealthy. Why lie to yourself? If you work hard and fail, maybe you're untalented, but it's good to know that and change directions. Or maybe you picked a bad goal and should pick a new one.
On the other hand, if you don't work hard and you fail, you haven't learned anything.
Also, "fail" is too broad. Maybe you worked hard, taught yourself to code, and built a website that got no business. OK, so your business failed, but in the process, because you worked hard, you learned how to code. Hooray!
You can develop your talent, or you can sit around and think you're stupid.
Talent IMO is an epistemological quagmire you'll never get out of any other way than by quitting on it. As a sociologist, I like to remind that it is a relational concept - it doesn't refer to a 'thing' but to a way of defining yourself in relation to something.
I know that I tried to teach this to my kids. That failure isn't a judgement its a result. Learn and re-attempt. If you fail several times then succeed it feels (to me at least) much better having succeeded than just succeeding right off the bat.
The place where this gets dicey is the test scenario where you have only 'one chance'. When its possible to do test runs that you can fail at and practice it seems to help.
On a 4.0 scale here in Canada, 90+ is a 4.0. This means regardless of whether you get a 90 or a 100, you still end up with the same GPA.
I make an explicit effort not to get above or under 90. 91 and 92 is unavoidable at times, but when I get a 98 or 100, I feel like I've just wasted a bunch of time. If I didn't study much, I shouldn't have studied at all. If I didn't study at all, I probably should have gone to the exam late, etc.
In an ordinary context, I think a lot of us understand the balance between reward and effort. And of course, reward tends to come with diminishing returns as a function of effort. I really think that's the reason we all don't try very hard for everything.
...Unless there's a lot of money involved... then it's different.
On a related note, some folks think this is why LeBron James played terribly in the 4th quarters of the Finals games vs. the Mavs.
Work by its definition is something that you don't enjoy doing. The real risk is that you spend a lot of time doing something that you don't enjoy when you could have been working less and enjoying yourself more.