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I love in person events.

Online events give me loads of fatigue. In-person events energize me. The backroom conversations are why they’re great.

At the beginning I was always into the speakers. Later I realized they were really a gimmick to bring us together.

Clubhouse captures some of this in person magic. There was also a book club that was pretty good. Slate I think it’s called.

Let’s hope Apple can capture this. :)

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This is the one thing technology can’t solve in the discussion - humans are different. I find conferences intensely draining. I love people but I don’t like crowds - I grew up in the remote mountains. But I realize I’m not everyone and I recognize that hybrid events and work places are probably the best way to ensure everyone gets to work and participate in the way they feel most effective. I am glad that the extrovert hegemony has been cracked this year, but I also realize as humans we should figure out how to assemble and collaborate in a way that is most comfortable for everyone, then everyone will get so much more out of the interaction.

> Online events give me loads of fatigue. In-person events energize me.

Completely opposite for me, and I bet other introverts or people with social anxiety/low social mana.

Small talk and the like is tiring, but getting to talk about your pet project with others who grasp it's depth is a rare and exciting thing, and there is no denying that in person communication flows the best.

Speak for yourself. I'm not so much an introvert as a near-total loner. I find in-person conferences incredibly interesting and valuable for the ability to spend a week nerding out on technical topics with new people. Online conferences do absolutely nothing for me.

I've described them as a geek spa or fantasy nerd camp. It doesn't have much to do with the act of delivering talks in-person on online; that's the the mechanism for a very special type of social interaction that is hard (or impossible) to replicate online.

Another socially anxious introvert here. I miss in person events so much, digital conventions don’t compare even remotely (please don’t talk to me though).

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