I've developed temperature sensitivity as I've aged, and now cold water in the mornings will trigger pain in certain teeth.
It's quite disappointing that the common advice is "brush twice daily and floss", which I've been doing my entire life (flossing for at least a decade).
Getting older sucks, and I'm not even that old.
There are independent studies confirming the efficacy. The active ingredient binds to dentite and forms a protective layer, which lasts about a day.
It's OTC in Europe but afaik on prescription in the US. Maybe buy it from an EU web shop, it's no more expensive than a regular toothpaste.
There's some ways to build up enamel as long as you've not eaten away at the dentin (aka cavity). There's tooth paste and mouth wash that has small particles that get stuck in groves in your teeth and helps enamel grow. It also reduces sensitivity. My dentist recommended something for me so I'm assuming it's not one-size-fits-all.
You have to leave the fluoride on without rinsing, give it time to work (30 mins without drinking fluids), and reduce the amount of acidic foods you eat that is eroding the enamel.
After using it for a while (couple of months) I started noticing a drastic improvement to cold sensitivity. To the point I can bite into ice cream or popsicles without any cold pain.
>> The scientists are not recommending DIY treatments though. People who are experiencing any worrying toothache should still see a dentist, they stress.
I don't think that's a long-term solution for everyone, though. I have had painful sensations when drinking ice water or eating ice cream my whole life. My dentist sees no apparent reason for this: I don't have significant gum disease, and I've never had a cavity so I would imagine my enamel has been in good shape. If there's something else specific my dentist can look for to see why I have the pain, or something better than Sensodyne, then it's new to me and my dentist.
It took a few months of nightly use, but It drastically changed my cold sensitivity. I can bite into ice cream and popsicles now, something that always hurt as a kid.
You also might want to consider a different dentist, as there is a large range of ability with them.