>some people think you are a heartless jerk
I think this comes down to a fundamental miscommunication. No one is going to believe you are a heartless jerk for advocating for more efficient, effective practices in government. The values judgment comes in when the services being cut are those that provide tangible, critical value to individuals in society - think social welfare programs.
Because cuts are never accompanied by a plan for efficiency, cuts always mean services get worse. Therefore, individuals who receive vital services suffer. Then comes the 'heartless jerk' values judgment.
Maybe all budget cuts need to be precipitated by a process evaluation and bloat reduction.
The issue is, that game is too easy to rig and too tempting to play; for proof, see literally any large corporation's budget and planning processes. Fiefdoms abound.
I don't know how to fix the problem.
I have always said that I would gladly pay 75% of my salary in taxes, as long as everyone in society had easy, equal access to high quality education, quality, safe housing, nutritious, safe food, and high quality, timely healthcare.
The problem is, any society structured to provide those things will immediately be corrupted by greedy, power-hungry people.
Getting a little too philosophical, I think. Anyway. I don't know what the solution is, but I'm hopeful that there is one.