On a side note, I see plenty of developers click the "Remind Me Later" button over and over and over on the update dialog for their dev tools (and even OS). As a pathological example, I noticed one of my coworkers running a 3-year-old version of IntelliJ IDEA recently when he shared his screen on a Zoom call. But people who don't even install patch updates for months is common as well.
Docker Desktop is produced by a for-profit company, and while it is free of charge itself, it is a key customer-facing part of an ecosystem Docker monetizes by selling subscriptions to services which it leverages. It's not some solo developer’s spare time project, and if Docker wants to be a viable business, it won't be treated like one.
It's not like the developers of some OS-es didn't work hard for users to have this attitude. Nowadays you better wait at least a few days before you give in and agree to update your system, it's just a sane approach to risk control.