Imho, there are couple of important underlying reasons why we see a centralized grid as a well functioning one.
It is a mature system. Having been operating in the space for over 100 years, it is true that the current grid systems are extremely well operated. Yes, even the Western NA and the ERCON (Texas one). They have a very complex system of ancillary services in places, order value of generation based on conditions, etc, etc.
It is also true that having a multi time zones footprint (and multiple geographies) allows for interesting properties. For instance, Denmark energy produced through offshore wind turbines is sent to Norway (equivalent to LA - SEATTLE distance) to be transformed into hydro storage.
So why do we need decentralisation?
First of all, there are places where a central grid don’t exists. You can think about Africa, but also some rural areas of US. Having the traditional grid reaching those places is simply not economical feasible.
Secondly, while a country level grid is operated effectively, is not always efficient. There are plenty of energy transformation (from DC to AC, but also different voltage conversion, etc). And then there is the OMH low, and energy loss through resistance of the material used to transmit it. To be honest, is not that microgrids don’t have loss, but there are definitely less conversions, and shorter distances to travel
Thirdly is resiliency and robustness. If we push for smaller decentralised grids, we are pushing for an extra level of redundancy in the operations, for instance by increasing adoption of residential/neighborhood storage solutions. If one of those microgrids goes down, there are no chain reactions, or tip-over effects, which today are quite common in a centrally operated grid.
Lastly, it’s about innovations. Central grid systems have made us ‘lazy’. Energy prices have been going up, but slowly enough that we haven’t been really bothered by them (boiling-the-frog effect). In markets where the traditional grid was not as present/robust, innovation has moved way faster. For example, is no surprise that the majority of residential storage solutions companies are based in Australia, where they are experimenting with multiple chemical compounds (zinc, bromine, titanate, etc) as well as different architectures (ie. Hydrogen)