Too expensive and complex now in the name of "safety". Most additions to required car safety features beyond airbags has been minimal in actual gains compared to the added cost and long term repair complexity induced.
I think entry level cars should be able to be much cheaper and barebones. The recent requirement for backup cameras is one example of too much for too little. I just want a car that gets me from A to B reliably. I don't even care if it has good radio/speakers, power windows, etc.
On the flipside, I hate driving in general. I'll happily pay for a self-driving (or nearly self driving, at least) car with all the gizmos needed to make it work. However I will only "buy" such a car (in the sense of legal ownership) if it has a lifetime warranty or reasonable trade-in guarantees. Otherwise it'd be lease or long term rent only as the repair and upkeep costs on so much proprietary tech would be insane past X years, if its even possible.
Cars are a tool, not a fashion / status symbol for me.
(*restricted to straight down-hill roads)
I can't be the only software dev that dislikes gadgets. I work with computers all day but don't particularly like them and don't want more of them in my house.
With that said I'm not against computers in ICE vehicles, the emissions improvements and yes reliability improvements they've brought are amazing.