Despite all that, I have it real good. I am able to do work that I love (and not get paid a dime for it), and live a life that includes friends, health, wonder and joy.
I may not be a TED-talkin', man-bunned, skinny-jeans-wearin' jargonaut, but the folks that end up working with me are very, very happy to do so.
I've (not exaggerating) been shipping (as in "delivering finished product") software my entire adult life.
That tends to make my work speak for itself.