Fertility rate: 'Jaw-dropping' global crash in children being born
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"Oh no. If I draw this trend out in a straight line, it crashes against limits!"
Just because that number is set to transition from above replacement level to below replacement level doesn't mean we're now able to set it to whatever we want.
There is a coordination problem here, and even if all women could agree on the correct average global fertility level, and perfectly implement a fair quota system among themselves, I think there are other stakeholders who should be considered in that process: not just the men that might be involved in the raising of some of those children, but also the future generations of humanity that will only exist (or will exist in a very different environment) if the global fertility level goes outside a band of sustainability.
That touched off a population worry by connecting (a) rich country births were down, and (b) poor country births were still going up. The demographers were already worried about inverted pyramids in the 70s, and already knew the solution (immigration). But it was way easier for people to be scared.
The math has always been the same and the actual scientists have understood it for at least a half century. What to do with it is pretty complex.
* Gender equality. Because more women are now financially independent, they don't have to marry and/or have children and choose career instead.
* Hypergamy. There are millions of high achieving single women in their 30s who struggle to find a partner while at the same time their fertility is falling.
* Divorce statistics. Divorce rate is high, most divorces are initiated by women and most men end up losing a lot, which causes more men to abstain from marriage and/or kids.
* Ever rising cost of life and standards. In UK for instance real estate prices are growing way out of proportion compared to income.
What? My wife hasn't worked in 15 years and we have 7 children at home. I'm not rich, we just budget.
Buddy - you're rich. You don't seem to realize how utterly out of reach your lifestyle is to the vast majority of people.
Hell hath no fury like someone who thinks some other person has too much on the internet.
People with better-paying jobs have more of course. I know a person with 11 kids, doing technical training I believe. I have 12 kids, supported on a career involving low-level software.
Just doing it anyways & bearing your lack of fulfilment has a certain dignity, but I think the overall push & desire to manifest oneself & know oneself before springing forth a next generation is a great & wise push, is a powerful form of earnesty.
I'm having a hard time finding a potential mate myself. There's lots of wonderful, smart, nice people. But I have a hard time imagining long term compatibility, don't see the kind of excited engaged open mix of disposition & opportunity that I feel so lucky to be getting to live. The wavelenghts to share & witness each other are narrow. I don't know a source or what not, but the "you're not competing with other people to date me, you're competing with my alone time" idea rings strong, I think, for many. I love humanity & other people a lot, but the social disconnect between people is real, and I'm glad to see people working much much harder being much more picky about finding each other, seeking connections. Even though it has problems. Even though, ultimately, much of the purpose is kids, kids we're raising, who we'll near certainly end up fairly disconnected from us, living their own lives, in many ways.
We also have a much more world-conscious outlook today. What we can imagine ourselves as being, becoming, takes place on a much bigger stage than it used to for most. This is, for sure, coupled closely to the journey of finding ourselves & recognizing each other that I talk about above.
At least maternity & paternity leaves are a different beast altogether and shouldn't be included in the equation. They should be a basic human right as parents need their time to take care of their child. If you remove that, you create many problems for the young human. Many Europeans take it for granted they can take care of the bayby for a year or so not realizing there are countries where the mother has to go back to work after a couple of weeks or the state doesn't guarantee any leave - I have no idea what these poor parents do in such a situation.
In countries with extremely supportive states and low inequality like Finland the birth rate is very low still. (1.4). It's simply a matter of choice.
- lack of birth control - child labor - children used as retirement support for elderly parents
also known as living in a loving family