It's like being in the arms trade: what matters is who you decide to trade with.
Honestly, I'd rather see myself as anti-cyber-war at this point, like anti-war protests, meaning telling people to use computers for less critical tasks, and disengaging from certain areas.
The best way to stop future attacks is to make current attacks unsuccessful.
So the whole point of security, digital or physical, is power.
For now, I really don't see the point of working in security for a single reason: there is NO REGULATION on measures of security when writing software. You can find millions of regulations for making physical products, but very few for software when it comes to security.
Of course, governments have higher standards, but law should mandate that insurance companies be able to evaluate cyber risks, so there should be regulations regarding computer security.
I think I a bit can understand how you think. Looking at some health care related apps, I was surprised to see how buggy they were (the user interface) and silly built, wrt security.
On the other hand, without computers, the alternative seems to be that the health care staff picks up the phone and just assumes you are the one you say you are
(I guess you're in the US?)