It is just a matter of fact.
A good thing however is it seems to changing slowly towards a more nuanced perspective.
Here's a true story which kind of describes a very similar situation but with a different outcome than what we've seen (yet).
For years I was bullied at school, and anytime I took revenge teachers arrived swiftly, telling me that even if the others started I wasn't allowed to respond. I still did though but it was obvious that I got more trouble for it than them.
Then I came to a new school. Pattern continues. I complained, nobody did anything.
Then one day I gave another bloke a real beating, and for a change my teacher stepped up and told the other teachers that if they couldn't ensure skinkestek was left alone they better not interfere when I gave the bullies a beating.
That was the last fight. Once they realized they wouldn't get any sympathy anymore it stopped. My siblings also stopped being harassed.
Generally everything got quieter because I was top dog now - and I didn't want to fight.
I feel this is the same in middle east. Israel is strongest but want peace. The international community keeps this conflict going like my teachers used to do by verbally abusing the strong but peaceful one.
My guess is the moment Hamas realizes there is no more sympathy to be gained by doing insane attacks that only serve to anger the neighbor then we'll get peace.