As someone who admittedly loathes _and_ is bad at cooking - it sounds like you are describing a combination recipe book _and_ cooking-instruction/cooking-history book. I wonder if people are frustrated because the two are getting conflated - they _just_ want the recipe, but they are being given both recipes and background?
And while I'm grateful for youtube, blogs, reddit, etc for reducing the barriers for folks to share information about topics like cooking and home improvement, they've also taught me to appreciate a good editor.
[0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/On_Food_and_Cooking
Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/101255.On_Food_and_Cooki...
[1] https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/117144.The_Curious_Cook
The first edition is over 100year old, my grandmother gave the second edition of that book to my mother who gave it to my sister.
Have you read Modernist Cuisine at Home and can you compare?
It's a beautiful book and is an interesting read. That said, I don't really use it much although I have a few go tos. A lot of the recipes are way more work than I'm going to put in for, say, an omelette.
[0] https://www.americastestkitchen.com/
[1] https://www.amazon.com/Recipe-Editors-Cooks-Illustrated-Maga...
If I have a criticism of them, it's that they make some things more complex than they need to be for little gain in the final product. They have you cook everything three different ways as a friend puts it. I think they've probably gotten a bit better on this front as well.
- Every grain of rice ( Fuschia Dunlop ) is close to what I’d consider a perfect cookbook.
- Franklin BBQ ( Aaron Franklin ) is a definitive guide to how to use an offset smoker. I’ve read through portions over and over again - it’s only got about 10 recipes.
- My two south’s ( Asha Gomez ) - A wonderful collection of recipes inspired by South India, the south.
A good cook book will usually have a section that introduces new ingredients, tells you how to source them, introduces new techniques or methods, and also introduce some shorter recipes that can be used as dependencies for others. At the end of the day - you want good building blocks.