This creates the hilarious situation where most millionaires in the US don’t subjectively feel wealthy. Because we are taught that our subjective feelings are the truth, this creates an interesting political situation where we have a built-in assumption that no one will ever be satisfied.
If you are supporting a family, you probably still can't stop working.
If you've got no dependents and you're willing to go lean you could sell up, head out to the sticks and live off your capital. It would not grant you a lifestyle conventionally described as "wealthy" but you'd be doing OK.
Or am I just in the trap?
It's expensive as hell to do the whole "2.5 kids, a house, and 2.5 college tuitions" thing while still having a life of your own.
I also realize this comes from a place of privilege (many people can't even really expect to ever retire, much less retire comfortably or lavishly).
The middle class has really eroded away to basically not having any lower or middle segment. You're either working poor (whether you self-identify that way or not) or you're upper-middle-class (where you might start to externally seem "rich" but if you lose your job you still have to find another one pretty fast.)
Last year, my savings had reached over 60x annual expenditure so I felt more than safe even with allowances for self-insurance for long-term care and higher education for my children. How much more do you need?
In my case, I way overshot my savings needs: my current net worth is about 60x my typical yearly expenditure.
I was well paid in my career and saved and invested at least about 70% of my income.