> the reality is that as a poor white person it is much easier to find your way out of poverty.
You misunderstand. The comments are not about race, but the individual decision that's always available to you, to break away from a losing game.
Likewise, I was dragged down by my family who defined what I should aspire to (ex: being a doctor or a professor or a lawyer while I liked computers) and what I should do (ex: give them money to help them). I tried to do what I was told and realized it caused failure.
> which allows other members of your family to likely not be poor — thus able to support you.
After noticing and analyzing the pattern of failure in my family, I decided it would stop with me - by disassociating from them.
From your post:
> That is why it should come as no surprise that so few Black people have successfully built generational wealth: we’re always actively trying to keep the current generation alive
That's your mistake.
Eventually, I decided "screw them, I don't give a flying fuck even if they starve to death" -best decision of my life!
Yes, it involved a lot of risk, as I knew they would never help me again in return, but being in the US it was almost a given I would never return.
Now I'm a young retiree.
I was asked money- more than once, especially after they knew I had made it. I told them in very clear term I'd rather burn my money and become a bum than give them a single dollar. That stopped the claims :)
> That’s why the American Dream is so far out of reach to many: https://andrew.im/essays/a-journey-to-the-american-dream
You're so wrong. The American Dream is out of reach because selfishness is unfortunately not taught. We give people wrong values (help your friends, support your family etc) and act all surprised they fail in life.
It's a honest mistake to make- the same as having kids in the hope they will help you in the future (they might) while they will certainly cost you in the present and the future (they sure will)