> what is that number?Pi minus 3. If you are saying you can't actually perform that operation, great! That means you are agreeing with me. See below.
> you cannot multiply by pi by repeated addition
Thank you for agreeing with my main point. See below.
> not because the numeric method is wrong.
If someone is going to claim that multiplication is repeated addition, then their definition of multiplication in terms of repeated addition must cover all cases. You are saying it doesn't cover pi, which means it doesn't cover all cases. So the definition is wrong.
> For generalized reasoning, yes. For teaching, not sure.
Why not? What's wrong with telling kids, multiplication in general is a distinct primitive operation, we are teaching you how to multiply whole numbers using repeated addition, but be aware that this method will not generalize to all cases?
> Which is better, a student who knows that mul is rep-add, or a student who gave up and doesn’t know even that?
A student who has been told what I just described above is not in either of these positions, so you are arguing against a straw man.
> When they learn, they ask themselves why and it’s a rabbit hole.
No, it's natural human curiosity which should be encouraged, not stomped on. At some point they'll either realize that they're up against material they're not yet ready for, and put it aside for later, or they'll end up being a math prodigy. Both outcomes are better ones than them just being told "this is it, don't ask any questions".