Meanwhile, here I am, making a decentralized social media server and being afraid to add an extra <div> lest it bloats the page.
I'm consider myself lucky to be born in the 'transitional period(1980s) I see the world of my parents and also have abilities to adapt with technology.
TL;DR - users can get used to pretty much anything because they don't know it could be so much better
My company, like many, bloats Windows with security software. We have the type of PC where McAfee uses 80% of resources for an hour every Monday morning. PCs with spinning hard drives take a good 15-20 minutes to fully boot, and some engineers still have those. Those who complain just get told to wait a few years for their planned laptop replacement, to finally get an SSD.
There's no solution, so users just cope.