Paying taxes feels a lot more like an inconvenience than theft to me. Maybe I don't earn enough to truly feel how onerous taxes are.
> There is no such place
Not really, there is very little ability or willingness of any government to control what a single individual might do in wastelands like deserts or Antarctica
> Government is and always has been the principal enabler of every single genocide, war, and mass atrocity in history.
And assuming you are right, they are also the principal protector of property and capital. Who would you rather protect the food that you depend on while it is being grown by a farmer in a field from opportunistic hungry thieves, if not mercenaries, an if the latter, from the mercenaries themselves? I believe government meeting these basic needs are so much a better good than the alternative that it more than balances out the occasional genocide, war, and mass atrocity.