1. Vastly improved signal-to-noise ratio 2. Better relationship with code reviews
For 1, in most CR systems you can mark the comments as resolved once their fixed. They don't even have to show up once they're fixed. That should improve the signal-to-noise ratio. In addition, nobody should really just be glossing over any comment, regardless if it's a nit or if it's a serious change.
For 2, I still think that you should try to not take code reviews personally. Perhaps it's more a sign of the environment or the company these CRs are happening in? That "zen-like acceptance" isn't something that just pops out of nowhere, it's something that has to be developed and built. Strangely, when I get a bunch of nits on my CR, it actually generally makes me happy. It's proof that the other developers on my team couldn't really find anything wrong with the code I wrote.
Of course, I'd still love to have 0 comments instead of a bunch of nit comments, so I 1000% agree with using automated tools to lint code, ideally in multiple places (before build, before commit, after commit, before merge, after merge, ...). I think it also helps focus reviewers on giving more meaningful feedback.