Has anyone ever seriously suggested that it isn't OK to take a walk without headphones?
I like walking. I walk a lot. I've never in my life worn headphones while doing so.
I like walking. I walk a lot. I've never in my life worn headphones while doing so.
There’s also the subreddit /r/imaginarygatekeeping for bizarre refutations of non-existent arguments like this one.
Why does HN always do this? They'll see that the article is an opinion piece and instantly go on the defensive. Inferiority complex maybe?
I wouldn’t have that issue if the title were “why you should ...”
Edit: furthermore, there were times and places where “just taking a walk” was taboo. (See the Ray Bradbury short story [1] or the Mad Men episode where they freak out at the woman who says she does it.) So I chafe at the false implication that we’re in such an era, if the author isn’t going to back up such a claim.
I think this has a prerequiste of being well adjusted mentally. I never walk without headphones, my mind wanders into a panic attack thinking about all sort of things. So much so that I fear walking.
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The Casey Neistats of the world who seemingly are productive and marketize in their sleep (example only, he might be an OK guy).
So, no one seems to outright say “walking in silence is bad”.
But they sure imply it.
1) you may not hear vehicles, people, animals that pose a risk. If you're in a bad part of town, some bystanders may take you as a target.
2) listening material is a distraction. Whether books-on-tape or music, what you're listening to can effectively distract you. Ergo the occasional earphone user who walks onto an open manhole.
Best to stay in the here-and-now. Earphones are just like drinking or taking drugs as far as safety is concerned.
text: It is unwise for at least two reasons:
1) you may not hear vehicles, people, animals that pose a risk. If you're in a bad part of town, some bystanders may take you as a target.
3) beyond that, the listening material is a distraction. Whether books-on-tape or music, what you're listening to can effectively distract you. Ergo the occasional earphone user who walks onto an open manhole.
Best to stay in the here-and-now. IOW earphones are just like drinking or taking drugs as far as safety is concerned. help
Driving while wearing headphones is outright illegal in France, [0] and some US states [1].
[0] (PDF) https://www.rospa.com/rospaweb/docs/advice-services/road-saf...
People who do that know it is extremely bad, but it’s “this or something worse”. At least in the immediate time.
Of course I’d love if people actually had the solidarity they pretend to have, but they don’t. The world is not a kind place. And so, there are many people like me, who appear kind and peaceful and well-mannered, and who work constantly to calm their internal boiler. So no reason to try to make me remove my headphones (unless one addresses me on the street - there are politeness rules)
Also, it is very frustrating when people “try to give you a lesson” by walking towards you as if you didn’t see them. It’s headphones, not a blindfold. People don’t do that when I have a book while walking.
As a summary, my life is pretty much like the movie “Her”. I’ve tried not to be lonely and faced with people being insanely frustrating/angering. So I’ve embraced loneliness and mobile phones. It’s like drugs, slightly better because I still work efficiently.
Before covid this bothered me immensely at work, where it was that much more difficult to get someone’s attention in common spaces.
In my day job we use slack as the primary means of communication, sometimes the person at the desk next to you will set themselves as away/sleep notifications and pop on headphones - this is usually an attempt by them to focus on a problem. I think it's particularly common with more senior employees that tend to get lots of questions where, for me at least, I have no objection to questions but I want the freedom to handle them in my own time (usually within a half-hour or so, not days later) since that allows me to maximize my personal productivity.
So I very much empathize with folks who occasionally pop on headphones at work - even if they aren't listening to music but just using it as either a visual signal or to leverage sound canceling.
As a dev I'd often pop on headphone when working in the office even without music when I was working on a serious chunk of logic - I'm on the senior end of things and get lots of questions and sometimes you really get into a groove and want to focus.
Common spaces are kitchens, bathrooms, lounges, etc. Places where in-person interaction will likely be necessary for physical coordination and sharing purposes.
I agree with your sentiment pretty strongly then.