More recently, so many things I want to use are not available as a reasonably up-to-date package. Some examples are hugo and eclipse, where the versions provided are unusably ancient.
https://lwn.net/Articles/842319/
Meanwhile, more and more software is actively hostile to packaging / distributions, and things seem to have devolved into grabbing things from random github repos, or various dedicated/language-specific package managers like npm, pip, brew, ...
It's definitely annoying, seems like a step backwards, and its not clear to me whether there's some better distro i could be using, whether some funding / volunteer time could help, or the world has just "moved on" (backwards...) from the idea of a linux distribution with reasonably stable, up-to-date packages that "just work" for basic infrastructure so you can spend your time developing on your own project, instead of with the tedium of fetching and installing software and managing version compatibility problems yourself.