Death is a tragedy for relatives of the deceased but for society it is the most rejuvenating thing one could imagine. Change is so much easier when old ideas just die out.
Immortality/longevity might be great on an individual level but it is stagnation and death on a societal one.
Perhaps old people would be far less resistant to change if their mortality wasn't breathing down their necks and they knew they had all the time in the universe to change to new careers, enjoy those societal change benefits, etc.
The Epic of Gilgamesh(you should listen to it once) is one of our first written story which basically state this opinion about immortality.
People imagine that life extension would mean that people would have time to see the world, to read every book, etc. But that’s not what makes most people happy. Most people won’t read Shakespeare no matter how long they live. Immortality would condemn your average person to a pretty awful existence.
Moreover, it's a reflection of current society, not a society of immortals. People for the most part considered immortality a foolish dream or actively hostile to the idea, driven by cultural inertia and active cultural reinforcement.
As of 2016, the average income in Bangladesh was around $2/day: https://www.ceicdata.com/en/indicator/bangladesh/annual-hous....
The same year, 66% of people reported they were “very happy” with their life. https://www.thedailystar.net/frontpage/bangladesh-tops-list-.... Sure, Bangladeshis aren’t as happy as Americans. But the average Bangladeshi lives an existence that would drive your typical child-free American to suicidal despair. What do they have?
I'm not contesting that children can bring joy. I am contesting that they are the only source.
That in our society wanting immortality is somehow the "fringe" view (not to mention often depicted as evil) is pretty crazy IMO.
This kind of scenario seems to contradict your post. Here are options that I see, which do you think is correct (or am I missing something):
1. This kind of scenario, while fun to imagine, is actually impossible. They can't actually be happy without children or with such long lives.
2. This kind of scenario is certainly possible for aliens, but impossible for humans specifically.
3. You would actually recommend to the aliens to die after 100 years instead, as that would make their lives more meaningful.
4. Something else...?
Also, to answer one specific point you raise:
> People imagine that life extension would mean that people would have time to see the world, to read every book, etc. But that’s not what makes most people happy.
I mean, sure, I imagine what would make me happy if I lived forever. But I'm perfectly happy if most people did more of what made them happy, and I'm perfectly aware that doesn't mean most people would read Shakespeare. Who cares? Let them read / watch / do whatever they want, just like they do in life right now. Most of what I enjoy wouldn't make most people happy, and it's not reading Shakespeare either.