Transferring energy between grids requires either converting it from AC to high-voltage DC and back using solid-state electronics, or converting it via mechanical energy using a variable-frequency transformer. With either approach, you need bulky and expensive equipment in proportion to how much power you want to handle. These connections are designed to smooth out (and profit from) short-term capacity fluctuations, not to power the entire state.
Currently, the Texas grid has two DC ties operating at full capacity and drawing about 800MW from the Southwest Power Pool. But that's a drop in the bucket compared to the ~45GW of current demand, or the estimated 70-80GW of demand that would be likely if it weren't for the outages.
http://www.ercot.com/content/cdr/html/real_time_system_condi...
Basically, no amount of grid infrastructure can really help you much when you lose 50%+ of generation capacity on your highest demand days in history.
https://3dfs.com/articles/wasted-electricity-vs-lost-electri...
Almost 62% of electricity is lost in the grid. AC is the primary reason (matching, vibration, I2R, etc.).
HVDC is WAY better at transmitting power over any appreciable distance.
https://spectrum.ieee.org/energy/the-smarter-grid/chinas-amb...
If America built a network of 20GW HVDC interconnects it would be far more significant infrastructure than building some highways.
I recall that losses after generation due to transmission across the electricity grid are typically about 10%.
> Even today, ERCOT is also not completely isolated from other grids — as was evident when the state imported some power from Mexico during the rolling blackouts of 2011. ERCOT has three ties to Mexico and — as an outcome of the "Midnight Connection" battle — it also has two ties to the eastern U.S. grid, though they do not trigger federal regulation for ERCOT. All can move power commercially as well as be used in emergencies, according to ERCOT spokeswoman Dottie Roark. A possible sixth interconnection project, in Rusk County, is being studied, and another ambitious proposal, called Tres Amigas, would link the three big U.S. grids together in New Mexico, though Texas' top utility regulator has shown little enthusiasm for participating.
https://www.kvue.com/article/weather/texplainer-why-does-tex...
For the pedantic TX does have connections to other grids but the capacity is so low that it wouldn't have mitigated this event and is under whatever threshold is set for federal oversight.
It's also very unlikely that it would be near 30GW of transmission capacity.